Category Archives: Life

Thirds

Rule of Thirds

“Listen Ben… a third of the people you meet and interact with in life are gonna love you, the middle third of the people you meet are gonna hate you, and the last third could give a shit.”

Much like yesterday’s nugget of wisdom, this line, said to me around 1993 by an older radio dude in Washington DC has been haunting me.  It’s always been tough to accept that people didn’t think of me as anything short of fabulous.  I mean, right?!  I try hard, I work hard, yadda, yadda, yadda.

I guess I’m not at all like Seinfeld, of whom Alec Baldwin said, “Your life has been one unbroken boulevard of green lights, hasn’t it?”

I think I can add to the Rule of Thirds… let’s see if this works:

A third of the people you meet and interact with in life are gonna love you, the middle third of the people you meet are gonna hate you, and the last third could give a shit… and the weird part is that people jump over those lines to different thirds with frightening irregularity.

What do we think of THAT mind bender?

Cayman sunset

Waning moments

It’s in the waning moments that we realize what is important. And those moments can last forever.

The trick is to be observant and ‘in the moment’ to make any experience carry the weight of one that is waning.

One of my favorite professors of mine back at University started the second semester of Astronomy with some advice: “Be where you’re at.”  As I get older that statement has been ringing louder.  May you rest in peace, Dr. Hobbs.

There was a story on Lifehacker yesterday about why our morning commutes sometimes feel like no time at all has passed that struck home for me. During my first years in Cayman, I remember thinking that the weekends seemed to go on forever. Now I know why.  Read it.

It’s never as bad as you think it is and if you lie down or try and calm your heartbeats you can come down from the anxiety.

I’m going to try and be more observant of the moments we have left in Cayman and endeavor to write a little more about the process of moving.

I love you all.